It can be painful to hear word “from someone’s mouth that he or she isn’t in love with you. It might remind you the previous situation or make you worry about the further relations between you and your partner. This is a difficult circumstance; however, it is possible to learn how to manage it in order to regain his affection.
1. Understand His Needs
This news calls for worry about the future, freeze and considered strategies, plans or programs to be adapted to cope with the future. But it’s necessary to rise above the feeling of fear and pay attention to the need that he has.
Sometimes when a person tells you that they do not love you, it lacks much to do with you and more to do with their discontent with existence. Sort out what he lacks in his life and particular relationship through an emotionally charged conversation. Both of you should try to be patient and discuss things with each other, in order to see, what interests you have lost and get the relationship built again.
2. Refresh Your Relationship
There may come a time when there is little growth in the relations. It may thus be as good time as any to reboot and recreate a new interest. Everyone remembers the day or the time they started dating their significant other; what made you, interesting to him? This may help sort of give you a fresh desire to be adventurous and enthusiastic again.
This does not refer to transforming into a new person but instead means to reintroducing him with (the) positive attributes that made him attracted to you in the beginning. For the person who’s keen on getting a different view on life, a fresh view may make such a difference.
3. Accept the Concept of Change
But to enhance a relationship and hypothesize that of intimacy, you may have to accept that you might lose it. That is why a person agrees on debatable positions and openly communicates their intentions because they do not foresee the outcome.
Perhaps, going back to this kind of thinking can be of help. It is always good to go out on a limb and say how you truly feel and what you truly want. These are the measures that could restick passion and definitely aid in establishing a more sound bond.